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Hi, I am Dr. Maharaja SivaSubramanian N. Blogger, Coach, Consultant, Speaker, Trainer. And also a human being who has had experiences and exposure of my own share of success by working various frameworks (both created by others and designed by me)
And yes, here’s a disclaimer too. This is part of my own experience, education and all the perspectives coming from there. And very much subjective to changes which otherwise I would label as evolution as I evolve. So, take it for that, another perspective and another way of looking at life. If you feel it can be empowering and you are ready to take responsibility for the consequences, then give it a try. And again, absolutely not a substitute for professional help.
A lot of success begins inside you.
So, each individual has their own way of defining success. For some people, it’s about materialistic success, for some relationships, money, wealth, lifestyle, social status, achievements, etc. For some it’s about experience of how they live, for some it’s about their ideals. So, each have their own unique way of defining their success.
And that is the major reason, why a lots of success begins from inside you. Let’s look at some details.
How well have you defined your success?
Yes, you have an unique definition of success. Now, how well have you defined the same? Is it vague, or is it well defined in details? Do you have clarity regarding the various details of your goals?
NLP is one stream which helps define your goals, your success with various parameters, especially the usage of ‘a well defined outcome’ process. Which includes getting clarity in terms of; what you will see, what you will hear, what you will feel., etc. in terms of defining and describing your success. That is step one.
Are you open to receive the success you want?
A lot of times, there is internal resistance which leads to self-sabotage when it comes to achieving your goals/your success. And many a times, your success may be a lot closer to you than you think. And, if you have any resistance within, then chances are high that you are going to be repeatedly falling short. So, do focus on letting go of your internal saboteurs.
Are your actions/habits in alignment with your success?
One of the things that each individual has a greater amount of influence and control are their actions and habits. And when you focus on aligning your actions and habits with the success you want, you end up closing the gap between where you are, who you are, and what you want.
Is your success based on your values? Have you created an alignment in terms of your values?
Yes, each individual has their own set of internal values which also form a sort of a evaluative parameters and determine a good portion of your success. And also, determine a good amount of your happiness and fulfillment quotient. So, how well have you defined your values? Are they empowering towards your success? And, if not, which one do you fine-tune? Your success or your values, to make the combination more aligned and empowering to each other?
Do you plan, allocate resources, schedule, and follow-through towards your success?
Human beings have a good amount of internal navigation of pleasure seeking/pain avoiding, moving towards and moving away mechanisms.
So, are you working on planning about how you can move towards your success?
Do you know what resources are needed to go towards your success?
And, are you acquiring, allocating, and being resourceful enough to grow towards your goals?
And are you scheduling your time, and following through with the necessary actions needed to achieve the success you want?
Are you being aware?
Aware of where you are? Aware of where you want to be? And, Aware of what you want, and why you want the same? Aware of the many possible options to achieve the success you want? And, choosing the best options and making necessary course corrections along the way, building more on your success, and learning from your failures as you move towards your success?
Make success inevitable.
One step at a time, chunk your path to success into micro-goals achieving which will be easy and failure is ruled out. That way you can make achieving success a greater certainity.
Your environment plays a major role.
Yes, you can design your environment, whether be it, your living environment, work environment, friends, people you spend time with, mentors, role-models, etc. And design them in a way for maximum effectiveness and efficiency for achieving your success. Choose them carefully. Of the various factors which influence success, your environment plays a major role, and can be considered as one of the important factor influencing your success.
Are you measuring your progress and improving and persisting with patience?
Progress towards realizing your success is very important, and when you can measure your own progress, it helps you in various ways. It helps to do the necessary course corrections. It helps you to learn from failure and keep on moving forward. And yes, over a period of time, based on your reviews and measurements, you can bring in a lot of improvement. And yes, for some really worthy success goals, patience is going to be a major factor till you achieve the success you want. Persist with patience, and improve along the way.
And finally, a lot can be accomplished when you focus on your strengths, things you can control and influence, and create opportunities with self-awareness.
Yes, make an inventory of your strengths. Focus on the things that you can control and influence. A lot of time is wasted when you obsess excessively over weaknesses, things, people, and situations where you have no control, or influence, etc. Build up your capacity to be able to overcome your weaknesses, and also on areas of life where you can increase your ability to control and influence. And this all begins with self-awareness.
And with all these awareness, and by being max resourceful, focus on creating the opportunities required to create your success.
Based on the varied perspectives about how you can look at achieving success, a greater amount of what needs to happen to achieve success is well inside your capacity. Inside your mindset, your values, your actions, and your strategy. And when you build on all these parameters, the probability of achieving success is increased to a greater level. Wishing you all the best for the same.
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